'The happy-single' ' Me, myself and I' 'Going solo, going strong' 'Too cool to date' ' In a relationship with myself' God! The many things we say to show the world how happy and in love we are with ourselves. Who has the time to actually figure out how screwed up we really are, right? Amidst the lust for our dream jobs, our careers, our 'private plans', we've forgotten how to love. And I'm afraid it's not a good sign. Some things are in our control. Like we have the option to actually use our heads and figure out what's cool for us and what's not. How about we don't misunderstand this piece and find out where we're going wrong? Do we really love ourselves or are simply creating an illusion of it? Here are the things we're actually doing to screw it all up: 1. 'Love is a waste of time. Love is boring.' Our bunch has better things to do. We have our ambitions to fulfil, our